Showing posts with label shopping. Show all posts
Showing posts with label shopping. Show all posts

Monday, 6 July 2015

solo shopping...

i've been quiet on the writing front of late. feeling under the weather coupled with the park party fast approaching and my brain has been busy just functioning and getting everything done for next weekend. but i wrote this yesterday on my way home...

i took some time out today to head to Leeds on a little shopping trip on my lonesome. as usual there are presents galore to buy this month (why is it when we hit 30 everybody else turns 30, has babies, gets them christened, gets married and moves house?) so that was my main purpose but there's no point forgetting yourself entirely so the aim was also to pick up a bargain in H&M or somewhere.

so coffee in hand, new magazine in my bag (it takes me a whole month to read Elle at home) and i already felt worlds lighter. i didn't need to choo choo at every train that passed in the station, i  didn't need to fight to get on the train with a stroller and i didn't need to use bribery to get through a journey without kickoff. 

i jumped from shop to shop and back again choosing just the right gift and reasoning that I did need some new underwear. i chose a seat upstairs and enjoyed lunch (eaten still warm) and daydreamed. and now i'm on my way home again, absolutely knackered (why does shopping feel like a 10k after only 3 hours?) and looking forward to a lazy, family sunday afternoon. you can't have too much of alone time or a good thing, otherwise you'd never appreciate it.

Tuesday, 9 June 2015

father's day ideas...

there are posts galore on father's day gift ideas; luxurious, home- made, on a budget, and its something i started thinking about a few weeks ago. with so many events and occasions in the calender this year i'm trying to keep our present giving creative (and on a budget...)

ideas i've had...

craft ales. real ale, craft ale, bog standard lager; they are all popular with the men folk in our family. real ale is one of my father- in- law's 'things' and a box set of unusually named tipples is a favourite gift to give. the younger men in the family, and my dad, have always been more Carlsburg than Carbon Neutral but with familial influences and the growing trend for craft ales this could be an ideal gift for dads and grandads. Marks & Spencer have a fantastic selection of beer and cider and for Fathers Day are bringing out some good box sets if you want the job of choosing to be done for you. personally i love picking the daftest names or names that link to the receiver. if, like me you like to shop local, its worth scouting your high street or a bit off the beaten track to see if there are any individual wine and beer shops. here in York my favourite is York Beer & Wine shop, a treasure trove of a shop just beyond the city walls.


image courtesy of www.friendsofham.com



Not on the High Street. well this is just a one stop shop and basically i might as well finish my post here. this is my first point of call when im looking for ideas for any occasion (and also home and party decor.) you can find something for any budget, here are a couple of my favourites...

mini photo acrylic block & wooden calender keyring...


both priced around £15 they are a perfect, low cost present idea with a god dose of sentimentality.


chalk board. another totally unique idea is a pub style chalkboard, expertly painted by artist chalkboard illustrator. originally set up to provide a higher quality of work for local businesses, last year they started to design personal boards to be given as gifts. these can be a brain storm about the receiver complete with little images if you fancy, in any colour palate you choose. chalkboard illustrator has also designed personalised boards to be used at private parties and even table plans...so have a think about some good stuff about your dad and send him a message. 




good old socks and tshirts. when all else fails i go for some kind of clothing item. a traditionally boring choice is socks. rather than the 5 pack with days of the week on from Next im thinking big, thick, woolly welly socks from joules. perfect for the dad who loves to walk. or a farmer. tshirts; depending on their style id choose topman for cheap, simple and on trend, wierdfish for a more casual, beachy dad, wiggle for sporty dads and check out debenhams for the different labels...

happy shopping and fathers day! 

Saturday, 9 May 2015

weird fish...

this week a new store opened in York's premium shopping quarter and i popped out on my lunch break to see what it had to offer.
situated on the historical Stonegate, well positioned with White Stuff, Cath Kidston and The White Company, Weird Fish opened its whitewash doors of only its second northern store on thursday.




born in The Cotswolds, a brand that focuses on 'wearing the weekend', Weird Fish brings relaxed, coastal style dressing to the (carefully selected) masses. think about what you imagine you would live in if you resided in cornwall; loose knits, slouchy trousers or shorts, a rain coat just in case. so it makes sense that they position their stores in generally affluent cities and towns, where this kind of dressing appeals.

i was really impressed with the clean, crisp feel to the shop and the clothes were well positioned in stories and you easily moved from one piece to the next. there was a real White Stuff look to a lot of the pieces; laid back, comfatable, colourful. i must admit that i dont usually go for the sensible, comfortable look. i always appreciate what my mum buys from White Stuff and Joules but its not really for me. however, and here's the but...




there were some surprising pieces that i wanted to take away with me there and then. and there were some gorgeous textures, good quality fabrics and fun prints. think Joules and Boden.




my favourites were a holiday perfect white vest with a fun, seaside print on (£15.) some blue, tapered jersey trousers which were very The White Company, but without the £65+ price tag (£25.) there were a pair of printed, tapered trousers which would see you from may to september both by the seaside and in the city (£30.) and cleverly positioned on a whitewash table as you entered the store were some 'throw it on' jumpers in a choice of classic navy & ecru and coral & ecru. these are made out of a lighter weight version of Weird Fish's signature fabric, Macaroni in a slim yet relaxed fit. ideal for a walk in the dales or just the weekly shop (£40.)




so i think Weird Fish is a good addition to the casual wear retailers in York at a much more affordable price than some of its neighbours. and i will definitely remember them for some summer basics with a cute twist.

 

    Tuesday, 28 April 2015

    the search for the perfect tan loafer...

    i have had a thing for tan leather for as long as i can remember. i covet tan bag after tan bag and it doesn't matter how many i have there is always more room for the creamy texture in my wardrobe. i say in my wardrobe i actually mean chucked on top or lounging on the stairs.

    back when we only had enough money to do a basic weekly shop and baked beans were the go- to tea, I decided I really needed some tan loafers in my life. proper leather ones like a professional girl would have. from a good label that people who didn't need to worry about going over their mobile minutes shopped at. shoes like my friend Laura (my cleverest friend with a great job and Kate Middleton hair) would buy.

    i kept my eyes peeled, trying on numerous pairs in Kurt Geiger, Nine West, Dune...but unfortunately £85+ was always out of reach for this girl and the credit card was already maxed. the other issue was that when I did find myself a little richer (thank you Nanna & Auntie Elsie) the shoes I found weren't just right. too fussy, too plain, not the right shade, too tough.

    fast forward 6 tan loafer free years and I finally have them. perusing the size 6 sale rack in Debenhams with my mum a couple of weeks ago I spotted these perfectly simple, perfectly tan, perfectly soft shoes. i tried them, i loved them, i bought them. Nine West (my younger self would be so proud) and they were only £29 from £98. even my 20 something self could have afforded them. as long as i hadn't paid my phone bill.



    Wednesday, 5 June 2013


    the joys of the second hand...


    those of you who know me, or have followed me on this blog or Twitter will know that I have long been an advocate of the second hand. the charity shop. eBay. I know second hand items, for the home or for yourself are not for everyone. and the mere thought of stepping inside a charity shop with its funny smells and seemingly lack or order can make some toes curl, but I love second hand. and I have been able to sway some pretty hard to please customers with vintage and designer pieces both for myself and for my home. one of these being my Mum. granted, she still wont go into Oxfam but she will put her requests in for me when im out on a reckie.

    i wanted to write a piece about why I love second hand so much and why I feel it can really influence and make your wardrobe and the space that you live in. I've split this post into three parts, the first discussing why I love second hand, the second ill share some of my favourite finds and the third ill look into vintage and second hand decor for the home.

    i was very fortunate growing up that there was always some pennies left in the pot to keep my brother and I well dressed in Marks and Spencers and BHS when we were young. there was absolutely no need for my Mum to trawl through the rails in our local charity shops to grab a bargain for us or herself. so I discovered charity shops in the way that teenage girls with a spark of creativity and curiosity do. my best friends at secondary school were from pretty bohemian parents and they thought nothing of turning up on non- uniform day sporting a scarf as a top or a pair of old lady shoes with their bootleg jeans. at first it wasn’t for me. I was happy in my high street gear and I thought charity shops were for the poor kids at school that got picked on. but come college I succumbed, lured in by the promise of a quirky and fashionable wardrobe at a fraction of the price.

    around this time the celebrity culture was breaking out.mHeat magazine had just been released, the gossip pages wernt just for the hair dressers and doctors surgeries and more and more images of music and film stars and the fashion set were emerging in the daily press, and not just genre magazines. I imagine those in the fashion know have been rooting around markets and charity shops long before middle class British girls started doing it in the late 90s, but it suddenly became acceptable, and even cool. the British have always been eclectic and our High Street is world renowned, but by exploring vintage items as well it gave us an edge and mixed up our wardrobes even more.

    and what is great is that as Charity Shops became more acceptable amongst those who would normally only by brand new, so it became more acceptable to buy other items from there, not just fashion and vintage. so buying a great winter coat, not because it’s a higher end label, or on trend, but purley because its £7 as appose to £70 was ok. maybe this is only the case amongst adults, maybe children at schools still get teased if their parents cant afford the generic Superdry waterproof, but I guess those things will never change. the bottom line is you don't have to hinde your head in shame when you pop into your local store. with the recession and job worries, many of us have had to tighten our belts and really stick to budget and that often means forgoing a new pair of jeans or a new dress for Saturday night. but at least if you are open to shopping second hand, then those wants aren’t always out of reach.
    but aside from the fact it’s damn cheap, and that, in the case of Charity Shops, the money goes towards helping something, buying second hand can really transform your wardrobe. whether it’s a vintage item which can jazz up an otherwise ‘off the peg’ High Street ensemble or an affordable way to try out a trend that you’ve quite fancied but not dare take the plunge on. Oxfam is a fantastic example of a charity with stores all across the country that has really jumped on the band wagon and embraced the popularity of second hand and vintage.

    their windows and websites feature posters of well dressed, yet eclectically attired models and slogans urging you to pop inside or explore their online store and see what you might find. they have really grabbed this trend by the horns and run with it and I hope that it does encourage more young men and women to think outside the box and widen their wardrobe horizons. Oxfam have also united with the High street giant Marks and Spencer and the fabulous Joanna Lumley and promote their ‘Swopping’, exchanging your unwanted M&S items for a voucher to re spend in- store. this has also opened up the stores to people who might not buy second hand, but will now consider donating, which is always a good thing.

    there are also so many local Oxfam shops that are really upping their game to bring in the fashionable and perhaps more affluent customer through their doors. My local store is run by a fantastic woman called Mel and between her and the other lovely ladies that work behind the scenes there they have created a real second hand boutique. For the 'sorters' behind the scenes there is information on current trends that Mel has taken out of fashion magazines and price guides to help them strike the right note with their customers. They only put out good quality items and try and keep the mid to high end high street on the racks, along with designer and vintage of course. They keep an eye on what's popular within the year's calender, the media and culture and theme their windows accordingly. so in january you'll find tartan galore with Burn's night, July it will be tennis and sports wear and December, Strictly inspired evening wear. 

    alongside my local market street charity shops I also love browsing on eBay on an evening. whether its to find a specific item (my husband loves it for Golf related stuff) or just to get inspiration and see what everyone else is chucking out that might be of interest to me. what eBay also offers is bargain hunting and vintage finding for those that aren’t keen on stepping inside the shops. It’s also perfect for those on a mission or just don’t have the time or inclination to rummage. with just a few clicks you can search for anything your fashionable heart desires. Only last night did I decide to browse trainers, with a want for a pair of something colourful and slim line but no budget to buy anything from Topshop or River Island and I happened across a pair of silver Nike Air Max’s (ok they aren’t slim line or colourful) and low and behold, something new and exciting is entering my wardrobe (hopefully, I still have to win the auction…) eBay is also a great way of making a few quid off your unwanted items, with many people actually buying low cost and selling them on. I too have sold a lot of vintage and second hand items that I have bought over the years, maybe customized, and then decided after a few wears that they weren’t for me.

    another thing I wanted to touch on was volunteering. this is a fantastic way, as a fashion addict, to really get involved in this part of the industry. not only are you helping out a charity, gaining valuable experience and maybe making new friends you are also on the front line of the rummage. I used to help in my local store on Saturday mornings and at the end of my first shift I walked out with a vintage, liberty print scarf. Enough said.

    so the next time you pop out to your local high street or the next time you're browsing the high street online, spend five minutes in a charity shop or check out eBay, you might be surprised by what you come away with.

       

    Sunday, 2 June 2013

    sunny sunny weekend dressing...


    saturday's shopping trip on a relatively sunny day was a good opportunity to bring out this stripe maxi skirt from www.primark.com. I bought it with my up coming holiday in mind a few weeks ago but have worn it a couple of times already. kept it simple with a navy shirt from H&M mama, my old faithful Whistles navy blazer and tan leather slip one from Next. finished off with an old Adidas handbag, gold and orange studs from Accessorize, Marc Jacobs watch and my everyday silver a leather charm bracelets.



    saturday night saw us dining and chatting away with night with friends so quick change and a spritz of perfume and I was ready. swapped skirt for acid wash skinnies from Topshop maternity, oversized vintage Planet blouse with an acid yellow necklace from Primark and orange stilettos from Next to finish.








    Friday, 31 May 2013

    shopping saturday with mum...

    tomorrow I'm going to partake in one of my favourite activities; shopping. but this won't be just any old shopping outing, this is shopping with my mum. this is planning the week before hand, spending, pondering and discussing in depth over lunch, coffee breaks and then digesting the whole way home and the next day too.

    this shopping trip is pre- holiday, a chance to coo at baby clothes and opportunity to snap up an unexpected bargain or treat. we're heading to Leeds to check out the new Trinity Shopping Centre and so I can introduce my mum to the delights of bibis, this is a gorgeous Art Deco, great gatsby glamorous restaurant and cocktail bar that has been well loved for years but I'm such a novice to the dining and drinking scene in Leeds I have only just discovered, thanks to my lovely bestie.


    so in two weeks i jet to marrakech with my gorgeous husband so the shopping list (route planned from the car park and back again of course) is holiday inspired. and by holiday inspried i mean that road we all go down when we feel that a week in sunnier climes calls for floaty things, more swim wear than you can shake a colourful stick at and traveller inspired jewelry. top of the list is another bikini; I'm down to only one that fits me and my slightly bigger pregnant boobs. black I think, let's go classic. I'm also on the hunt for a 'go with anything' t shirt for Dave, a simple black vest from H&M Mama and some flat, black, leather peep toes to see me through my last 11 weeks at work. spotted in topshop.

    we're looking forward to a good primark rummage though. now primark falls in and out of favour with me. sometimes it's crap central and the next time it is full of pieces you just have to have to jazz up a lacking wardrobe. I bought a stripy cotton maxi skirt from there last month, one that can grow with me and then shrink down again. I spotted one in there a couple of weeks ago in leopard print and that might just have my name on. same goes for a cream kaftan covered in black, gold and acid beading; again will work equally well with the aforementioned black bikini as it will with skinny jeans or leggings when I get more plump. ive got a beady eye out for a sleeveless blouse too.

    and once the shopping list has been made and discussed all that's left to do is plan the outfit and get my nails painted if I've not already been shallaced. so whatever you plan to do with your Saturday, enjoy. I will thoroughly enjoy my girl's day and keep you posted on the splurges...


    Saturday, 19 January 2013

    wish list...


    i have tried really hard not to buy too much this month (well the 19 days of it so far) and have only succumbed to a jersey midi length Aztecs style dress. and the logic there was that it will look great with thick tights and ankle boots now and a grandma cardigan and then come the warmer weather, off with the thick layers and on with the leather jacket and spring/ summer suitable footwear. and when I bought it last weekend it was the first time I had seen it in my size. so it was a good idea to buy it.

    the thing I think about buying stuff now is its got to be wearable today, but equally wearable in spring and even into summer. I see very little point in buying 3 new wooly jumpers and some new cord skinnies. although on the topic I've just remembered that I did buy a big knitted jumper 2 weeks ago... but that was neon yellow and green and from oxfam so doesn't count. 

    on my wish list for february, when I will allow myself to get the cards back out, is basically everything from Mango and Zara once again. their november/ december stuff was flipping good and my christmas party and New Year's Eve outfits both came from mango as it happens.

    looking ahead to the new season with these two high street beauties; there are monochrome shirts galore, mannish slacks, lighter knits and my everyday favourite, the boyfriend jean (as promoted by The Fashion Guitar this last week.) i love it when you see more of what you already have and love in the stores. 

    feels like someone is on your wavelength. 

    my favourite  pieces from Mango thus far include this gorgeous little Eiffel Tower print dress, this slouchy mint knit (and the way it's worn in this picture is perfect) and basically the whole damn lot on the last picture.

                                        

    and Zara basically nails it again with blouses. I think I can just about squeeze some more into my wardrobe.